(sharing your stories, one post at a time.)

Wednesday, July 30, 2008

"you're only puerto rican when you have to fill out a form."

you work too much, you said. life is too short, zaida. you gotta have fun. come on, come over!

but i have a child that needs new clothes and sneakers and lunch money and school supplies, and i have bills up to my eyeballs, and i want daniel to do what he loves and that means cooking 9 hours a day and that always means a smaller paycheck, and my puppies havent gone to the vet in a year, and we cant afford health insurance so that cavity is getting worse, and the eviction is never-ending and the lawyers are costing $300/hr, and...

the wedding.

im missing out on life with all this working.
i have for a long time.
there is always some bill to be paid, some shit to be done.
some piece of shit cheap thing i bought that needs to be replaced.
probably from ikea.

im tired and cranky and i want to bitch and moan to you, james, because you always had a funny come back and my crying of frustration would end up in tears of laughter and joy.

saturday night i had a dream with just me you and ryan. ryan was much older, and you took us to some indoor fair of some sort, like they have at javits, and it was mostly furniture and such, and you walked us around the booths, ooohing and ahhing. you said you needed to go to florida to pick up your bookcase (or armoir, something like that) and when i pointed to all the new ones you said no, you wanted the one you had. you suggested that on our way to florida we dropped ryan off in college or his new home out of state dunno, and then pick up your bookcase and drive back. again i said, just buy a new one! and again you said,

shuddap-a-your-face! it will be fun. youre driving.


and i woke up crying because you had this attachment to everything you owned. every single thing had a story, some background, someone or funny story was associated with it - to us it was just furniture - but to you it was the time we went to ikea when you first moved to battery and you were so hyped and made of fun of how now im the only one living in the ghetto. and so we bought a ton of shit and tried to put it together and that took all weekend because there was a song to be played or a movie to be watched or a cake to be made. so we picked out and bought the bar stools and your bed and the rug and and the cabinets with the glass and why you gotta bite me, yo? step off my dick son. as if you are the only person to ever buy shit from ikea. and how we put the glass in the wrong way and you said nobody will notice. our secret. and how many times we rearranged your bedroom because it was driving you crazy, and like how we went to buy that eggplant sofa that you were stalking and you forced me to drive all the way downtown just to see it because you were in love yet again, and i brought ryan and we were all like, purple? really?

or how whenever i was there you never used the dishwasher except to let the dishes dry or how you went estamos boosting because you didnt want to spend money or how you kept the "good toilet paper" on the top left hand shelf where i couldnt reach and told me that it was for special girls only and i didnt count, oh and that i peed too much stop drinking already.

or how you told ryan a different story about the cut on your chin.

every.
single.
time.

or how i gave you the vibrating bullet i got as a gift from one of my lovers, after you wouldnt put it down i might add, and you bothered the shit out of everyone with it, in public, like it wasnt a sex toy.

dude, it's a sex toy. you cant take that to work!! you will get fired!

i kinda miss the crazy. being sane and normal is boring as shit.

your legacy of insanity will live on through me, in private, i suppose.

just ask daniel.

i just found out the other night that he almost committed me to bellvue after you died.

i probably needed it, but im glad he didnt.

i mightve gotten too comfortable with not having to work.

"once you go rican, a job you'll be seekin"


she's like the female version of you, accept she gets paid.

xx zaida xx

I wasn't ready...

I wasn't ready.
I wasn't ready to give you back.
We have a lifetime of smiles to share.
To see you grow, to change, to be comfortable
in your space.
I wasn't ready.
I am still not ready.
My heads pounds and my heart beats
faster than it should.
I'm not ready to not have you here.
I miss you so, so, so much.
I didn't realize how lonely I'd be.
I have friends and people to love and to
have in my life, but they're not you.
I hadn't realized how much you were
apart of my life. How I called you when
I needed a friend. You denied it, but we
were friends, the closest of friends. I don't
have many I call a friend...
I miss my friend. I'm so hollow, so empty.
This isn't fair. You spent no time here,
not enough to be taken away...

Love you...
~Kamela

Tuesday, July 29, 2008

Fw: Roses & Jasmine !

(Just came across this, and thought you would love it, as I do......./sjg)
We seem to give them back to You, Oh God,
Who gave them to us...............
Yet as You did not lose them in giving,
So we do not lose them by their return.
Not as the world gives, do You give, O Lover of Souls,
What You give, You do not take away !
For what is Yours is ours also, if we are Yours.
And life is eternal and love immortal,
Death is only a horizon,
And a horizon is nothing save the limit of our sight !
Lift us up, strong Son of God, that we may see further,
Cleanse our eyes that we may see clearly,
Draw us closer to Yourself,
That we may know ourselves to be nearer to our loved
Ones, who are with You !
And while You prepare a place for us,
Prepare us also, for that happy place,
That where You are, we may be also,
Forevermore !!
"May the souls of the faithful, departed, through the Loving Mercy of GOD,
Rest in peace, forever more...................................................Amen

Monday, July 28, 2008

You didn't listen...


I remember one day...
we were on the subway and
I was on my way to school and
you were on your way to work.
We were talking.
Then we were about to get off in two
stops, so we got up and stood by the door.
The first time the door opens you walk out.
And I am standing there, wondering, " what the hell????"
I stood on the train and went to school.
When I got there I called you from a payphone,
back then cell phones weren't a necessity like now.
I ask you what happened, you were like, "what are you
talking about??" I was furious and confused.
I started to cry. I thought we just decided to leave.
You had no recollection as to what happened.
I felt in my heart something was wrong, way wrong.
I searched and called doctors for you, but you didn't want
to talk to anyone, I begged you.....
 
Why didn't you listen?????
 
Now the pain of missing you is
palpable.
 

~Love Kamela.

Thursday, July 24, 2008

For you to be or not to be on my mind...

 
 
"To be, or not to be: that is the question:
Whether 'tis nobler in the mind to suffer
The slings and arrows of outrageous fortune,
Or to take arms against a sea of troubles,
And by opposing end them? To die: to sleep;
No more; and by a sleep to say we end
The heart-ache and the thousand natural shocks
That flesh is heir to, 'tis a consummation
Devoutly to be wish'd. To die, to sleep;
To sleep: perchance to dream: ay, there's the rub;
For in that sleep of death what dreams may come
When we have shuffled off this mortal coil,
Must give us pause: there's the respect
That makes calamity of so long life;
For who would bear the whips and scorns of time,
The oppressor's wrong, the proud man's contumely,
The pangs of despised love, the law's delay,
The insolence of office and the spurns
That patient merit of the unworthy takes,
When he himself might his quietus make
With a bare bodkin? who would fardels bear,
To grunt and sweat under a weary life,
But that the dread of something after death,
The undiscover'd country from whose bourn
No traveller returns, puzzles the will
And makes us rather bear those ills we have
Than fly to others that we know not of?
Thus conscience does make cowards of us all;
And thus the native hue of resolution
Is sicklied o'er with the pale cast of thought,
And enterprises of great pith and moment
With this regard their currents turn awry,
And lose the name of action. - Soft you now!
The fair Ophelia! Nymph, in thy orisons
Be all my sins remember'd."
 
 
 
For the moment, you are my turmoil.
For many nights I have tossed and turned.
You have visited me in my dreams,
in my private thoughts. When I am
busy I don't think of you, but the very
moment I stop, the very moment,
you flood my mind. Your absence
haunts me, my every being.
I have just realize that
I'd rather suffer through the turmoil of
losing you, then not have felt you in my soul
at all.
I welcome the pain and the agony,
because in turn you would cry for me.
You did.
You would not have been the same,
if the tables were turned.
You would mourn in silence, in the moments
you had to yourself, just like we (I) do.
 
I do wish you were here, but since you're not,
I welcome your visits, your essence,
your being bedside me.
Forever 'n a Day
~Kamela

What you taught me...

I have so many fond memories with you.
The not so good ones, I put them aside b/c,
what's the point. We all make mistakes. We're
all human,  And most of all we hurt the ones
we love the most, right?!?
I met you when I was 20. I was so young.
So hopeful. So niave. LOL.
You burrowed your way into this place
inside my soul, where you remain, for always.
You taught me so so so much.
How to hold a bat.
How to make a stance to hit the ball.
How to cook without making a mess
and having tons of dishes in the sink afterwards.
What good music is and how to recognize it.
You taught me how to live in the past and want to
always be there.
You taught me how to hold onto the preciousness in
my life.
You taught me how you got into people's head
and how you stayed there.
You taught me how to be alone and enjoy it.
You taught me that I can clean the tub at anytime
night or day.
You taught me that I can be anything and do anything
that I want.
You made me recognize that I am a good person.
Though times you "hated"me, you never called me a
"bitch" at least not to my face. LOL My sister
says otherwise.
You taught me unconditional love.
And you brought me an array of people,
that now after you're gone I hold tight to
b/c they are what you left behind.
We are your legacy.  We are you.
 
~Forever 'n a Day
 Kamela

Tuesday, July 22, 2008

Not happening

This cannot be happening, James.
Oh my God! How can I still be in shock????
It's almost been two months.
I don't know how to do this.
Is there something wrong with me?
How can I be feeling the way that I do?
All I have left is a box with memories.
When I'm my loneliest, I shift through my box.
Read the stack full of cards, the hundreds of letters,
at first I feel better, but by the time I'm done reading,
I need to call you and ask you something or argue with you,
and there's no one, there's no one!!!!
There's no James to call and ask about baseball.
There's no James to call and shoot the bull with.
There's no James to call and just say hello.
You used to send me one word texts, and I'd smile.
I'm still waiting for that CD you said you were making me.
I know you can't come back and I am sad. I am hurt.
Can't this be the one exception where someone comes
back from the dead??? Oh God, listen to me...
I do sound insane...I'm not gonna blog to you for the rest of this
evening....let's see how long I last.
James Shawn Agostini, I miss you....

Forever 'n a Day
~Kamela

Fw: My 'Gary'.

a note from the editor and publisher: please no spam or ads on this blog. we are mourning a very loved person in our own way, through this blog, and to hijack this space is uncouth and lowly.

i respectfully ask that you don't post or email again.

thanks,
zaida

Hi......

Hey you.
You know I thought as the days went by, things would get bearable, not
easy, just enough where I can do my daily living.
But, I can't.
I'm stuck.
I 'm stuck in a place of no hope, confusion, torment, and endless dreams.
I don't know why I dream of you so much. But it kills me, cause I feel you
in my dreams, and hope you're here when I awake. (My keyboard is drenched with tears)....
You are definitely are hard person to get over....you've always been.
I never could imagine you not here. Even if you moved, I knew I would be able to call you.
Even when we didn't speak for a while you always, always, always called me when I missed you.
God, this can't be happening.  In a month I will
start my last semester finishing my second BA, then it's off to grad school. I need to be.
I thought if I took this time to grieve you, alllow you to envelope me, cry my eyes out, that when
I needed to return to my life I would be able to, but it doesn't seem like it.
I use to love being alone. I loved my alone time, just me and my thoughts, although I still love it,
I dread it, cuz I get lost in my thoughts and you consume me. I want to speak to you. I need to know that you
are good. I want you here!!!!!!!!
I only hope you knew what you meant to me. I think you do cuz you were always too cocky for your own good.
I remember when we first met. I thought," augh, he's so full of himself...." little did I knew I was fall for it. lol.
I miss your friendship. I miss knowing you'd always, always be here. I miss those odd calls, at odd times, usually
about nothing...
I think I'm going insane.......I gets harder and harder to breathe at times.......
--
~Kamela :)

help: the beatles edition

i woke up crying this morning.

my period just finished a few days ago so i cant blame my hormones this time.

i dreamt that i was packing two apartments by myself, and ruining someone else's wedding on purpose.

mental note: dont invite me to your wedding.

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"Truth | Tough Love"

there's an elephant in the room:

your seizures sucked balls, and not in a good way.

for the longest time i really thought you had multiple personalities. back in the day, bullshit doctors told you they coudnt find anything wrong with you physically.

test after test.
insanity.
we all knew something wasnt right.

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Monday, July 21, 2008

I feel...


This morning I felt suffocated.
The loss that which I feel for you
caught up with me.  This morning.
Who am I without the ones I love, the ones
who love me? Am I just another another mishap,
are we a casuality of those we love?
I have words rehersed for you, words that are
a direct impact of the decade we shared.
How do I honor you, tell me?
Do I make a pilgrimage to where I know
you are not, just to feel you present?

~Kamela

Sunday, July 20, 2008

As if...

It's amazing how I'm suppose to continue on with my life as if I never knew you.
As if you never existed. As if you never died.
You of all people, are not here. God, I cannot comprehend this.
Is this the age where my grief begins, before I even start living??
People don't understand how consuming you were,
How you did your best to get under our (my) skin, where you stay, as
permenant as an ink tattoo.
How foolish we were to believe we'd be here forever.

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Keep us....

No one understands death,
until it happens to someone they love.
I still can't get over my father's death
and it's been eight years.
I called James that morning, after
the ambulance rushed my dad to the ER.
I don't know how quickly he got from
Manhattan to the Bronx, but he was here.
He was there when they told me my father
didn't make it. I felt my knees buckle underneath
me, James caught me. I cried and I cried and I cried.

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sharing is caring

my new mobile phone just imported all my numbers last name first.

i never use it last name first cause i never remember last names, so i was annoyed for a millisecond, until i realized my first entry is

Agostini, James


and so, it is. and it stays.

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Heaven.....

Footprints on my heart,
is what you have left behind.
I often wonder why the heavens
decided they needed you more?
Is there something we don't know about??
I am sure they knew how much we laughed
together.
Now there is an endless supply of tears.
of uneasiness, of this gut-wrenching pain.
I thought I'd cry my last tears for you....
I can't wait to see you...
~Kamela

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.........

That's exactly how he loved his girls:
"She's sassy, loyal, stubborn and impulsive. She makes no apologies." !
--
~Kamela :)

Thursday, July 17, 2008

maybe that's why he loved her so

"Kidada Jones, aka daughter-of-Quincy, sister-of-Rashida, works in product development for Disney. Here is what she says about her Tinkerbell tat: "She's sassy, loyal, stubborn and impulsive. She makes no apologies." [W]"

xx zaida xx

Dreams

My husband was very good friends with James. They went to high school
together and in more recent years played baseball together. Sam was
really excited that James was playing with them this year. From what
I've heard, James was too. So needless to say, James is always in our
thoughts, especially on Sundays. (baseball day)
James hadn't played in the past couple of years so I hadn't seen him
in a while. But back in the day, I would ride in the car with Sam and
him to all the games. It was during these car rides that I really got
to know James. He was constantly trying to get a rise out of me! Are
you surprised?!

Well, to get to the point...yesterday was baseball day and I was
thinking about James. I'm sure my husband was too. My thoughts led me
to check the blog. Yes, I am one of the 96+ visitors.

(fast forward a week and 3 days)
I had a dream about James that night. All I remember about the dream
is that we (James and I) knew what was going on and I told him that a
lot of people missed him. I wish I could remember more but I am a true
believer that people can come to you in your dreams and I think he was
there that Sunday night.

Mandy (Sam's wife)

Venting

I guess I was a little frustrated yesterday.
I’m really trying my best to hold it together.
I have so much rage in my heart that I have no idea what to do.
James you are amazing seriously,
when times got rough you laughed about it
You will get angry but after you released the anger verbally you were back to normal
This is outrageous, or maybe I’m over reacting
I know I can be dramatic at times I have my moments,
I guess this week isn’t a good week for me at all.
I’m having a rough time with life period at the moment
Hmm I can hear you saying “FUCK THAT, FUCK EM , Don’t trust no one”
You were on my mind heavy this week I wish you were here,
Erin has been looking cute all this week
She’s trying to make her butt look bigger so she has been wearing seven jeans all week I know you would have had soooo many jokes
“Grenada has Style” LAMO
After reading Kamela Posts made me realize
I need to be a little more humble
Her post are sooo quiet, smooth and at times humble.
Shit, my last two post were loud, angry and confused.
I’m humble on the outside,
but inside I’m screaming
Man I miss you!
**Manta**

Wednesday, July 16, 2008

You didn't say good-bye.
But you never like good-byes.
I'm not ready to say "See ya later".
:(

~Kamela

Can't sleep...


So last night I could not fall alseep.
You were spinning my mind around and around.
Finally, I allowed you to take over my thoughts.
And the tears came. They didn't not stop.
The thoughts were from so long ago and
from the recent past. I miss you.
I spoke to you alot last night.
Time does not heal anything.
It makes it worse.
It makes me think
about how I'll never be able to call you.
It reminds me of all the "GREATS"
I can't call you for.
It reminds me that my friend,
who of few knows me best won't
be on the other line or whose face
I'll never see again.
It reminds of me that handsome
face, the one that will never age.
It reminds me how you won't
call me a billion times begging me
to meet you.                
I am so angry. It's not fair....
I cried myself to sleep.
Forever 'n a Day
~Kamela :)

FUCK!!!

Fuck! Fuck! Fuck!

 

This is really insane!! I’m happy that you are in the happier and peaceful place. But I’m like damn!! Losing a best friend is a CRAZY feeling. Some might think I’m fine, but inside this shit hurts. Okay… I’m going to stop thinking negative and look at the positive side of all of this.  Damn! I’m sorry! I’m feeling lost and confuse again. How do I overcome? I just want to SCREAM.

 

***Manta***

Still not Ready

 

Hi James! I heard from Katia today and she said she heard from you while she was in Cuba. ( Meaning she dreamt about you) You told her that you were good. I was a little annoyed because you haven’t visited me yet. But than again I’ve been so stressed these past weeks, that I prayed three nights in a row and asked that you don’t come visit because I’m so stressed and I’m not ready. James I’m not ready to let you go seriously. I don’t want to face the fact that you really aren’t coming back. I mean I know you aren’t, but on the other hand I block it out. I don’t think about it. But I think about you daily. I’m hurting so bad I don’t even feel it. Don’t think I’m avoiding you and I don’t want to speak with you. I’m just not ready, I’m scared to be honest. This is hard for me.  I’m still not ready!

 

I’m sorry!

 

Love You Always James

Samantha (manta)

As Time Goes By

I'm not as overwhelmed with thoughts of you in my head as much as before
I think slowly I'm beginning to feel better, and I guess that is a good thing,
but I can't help but still miss you so much. I guess the saying time heals everything is true.
The days when I miss you all I can do is stare at the pictures of us having fun and smile or cry
or look at your number in my phone and wish to god you were still here and I can call you just to say hey
I know you wouldn't want those of us who knew and loved to be like this but it is hard with you not being here,
and being a pain in everyone's butt. lol 
 
Love you always James aka kak :-)
Erin
 
 
 

Tuesday, July 15, 2008

I am sorry

I know.  And I am sorry.
If I could I would have been there in a second.
No questions asked.  No explainations given.
To have you here. At any cost. I would have.
 
Forever 'n a Day
~Kamela

Call me...

I am glad you called me back.
I know that you fight hard with the ones you love the most.
You're just so outragous.  And had your own way of thinking
and being. You always thought your way was the right way,
and we of course thought differently. 
It was about 2 or three months.
But that time was didn't speak for a while,
I thought of calling you first,
but I hesitated. I thought I should let you be.
When I picked up it was as if no time had
passed.  
I still have you in my phone.  I started to call you the
other day.....
 
~Kamela :)

Miss you....

I am not as overwhelmed with the thougths of you not being here anymore.
I feel normal.
Whatever that's suppose to feel like.
Normal, but there's a saddness that unconsciously hoovers over me.
When it's really quiet, it's the noisest in my head.
My days have been quiet, yes, that's the word.
You always had something going on, and I knew that.
That's why I liked talking to you. You always had a story.
An incident that was over the top, crazy and funny. How
you go into those situations was unbelievable. Kim told
me about last year when the two of you went bike
riding last summer. And the entire time you told her to
becareful, the next thing you know you get sideswiped
by a bus and run into a cab!!
How I laughed. It was hilarious!! And of course you were ok.
But I couldn't get the image out of my head. You were the only
one I trusted with my sister. You took care of her, kept her busy
and out of trouble. I need to chat with you now. I need advice.
In an instant, my life was turned upside down, like everyone
else who loves you and knows you.
Forever 'n a Day.....

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Think about you this weekend

This weekend I had really good time with a friend of mind,  and once in a while you would come into my mind, but not because it made me sad so much, it
was the things we would say to each other on the phone when you call and I have to say it made me laugh
I told her about you, and all the things you would say, I didn't tell her about this particular conversation, but while I was talking to her it came to mind and I wanted to share it.
it has been a while since you've been gone that I really let my self  have some fun.
Most of the times when you call our conversation would go something like....
 
whadup tities I mean E. whacha doing?
 
Nothing
 
You coming over
 
No
 
come on I'll cook you something
 
Yeah right? You know you ain't cooking shit you just want me to come over
 
Come on I'll make you something from Zumuda what do they cook over there
 
Fuck you, you ass
 
Come on you coming over or what
 
Nope
 
Fuck you then I'll call black panther (Sammy) lol
 
find 
 
Later kak five minutes later phone ring
 
You coming or what
 
Yeah, Yeah
 
Aight hurry up biotch
 
 

The Fucktards

back in the day, our arguments started like this:

yo, WHAT THE FUCK is wrong with you? how can you say something like that??!!

if you don't like it, TOO. FUCKING. BAD.

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visiting hours

dearest james,

so, what were you doing exactly?

coming to plant bugs in our ears and force your way back into our brain cells?

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Monday, July 14, 2008

Hmmm.

 

You were on my mind this weekend James.

You are on my mind everyday but this weekend was heavy.

Carlos and I went to 7A’s yesterday for brunch it was really nice.

Wish you could have been there.

 

James I’m still not ready to face the reality that you aren’t here. I mean I know that you aren’t here but in my reality it just seems as if you are on a long vacation and I’m just waiting for you to come back. I’m serious I really don’t want to believe that you are gone. I have my moments. One second it's like I’m fine and I understand that you aren’t with us any longer. Then the next second I’m all confused like what the heck is going on. Insane!!

 

Love you Always will

Manta

 

Wednesday, July 9, 2008

Zaida & Daniel: "Chasing Tail"

we are in this week's time out new york!!

along with our pups charley & hunter!

second picture in.  under the "dating" section. 

http://www.timeout.com/newyork/


click on our picture to read about our doggies and how we fell in love in our neighborhood.

cool!!

xoxo
zaida

Tuesday, July 8, 2008

No one knows....

I know what Zaidy means when she says that
she your lover can't really be your best friend.
There are so many thoughts in my head that
need to be released....but there's no one who
would understand. No one knows the mind-pain
you feel when you lose someone close to you.
No one can imagine the crazy ideas that run through
your head. They can't imagine the hopelessness you
feel. The loneliness you fee. The void you feel,
when that certian someone is no longer reachable,
no longer present. All you have are memories.
But they leave you lonely. They leave you
angry. They leave you wanting more.

OXOXOXXO
~Kamela

Hey there.....

well, I went camping this weekend and it was
a wonderful time. Even though it rained and
our tents were filled with puddles. lol But it
felt like an ordinary summer weekend.
No thoughts of things amiss. No empty
feelings in the pit of my stomach. No tears
to cry. Just a good ole time.
Then I came home....
I dreamt of you all Sunday night. The dream
it felt so real. You came to my job to visit me
like you used to do. And I knew that something
was wrong. In my dream I knew you were sick
and you were gonna die. I was so sad in my dream
and I felt the saddness as I slept. We were together
laughing and working......it was nice.
I woke up and told my sister about my dream, the tears
streamed down my face. I had to goto my room. It felt
familiar. I sat on the floor and cried and cried and cried.
Then I played Maxwell and cried some more. It was
awful. I miss you dearly. I know you wouldn't want me
crying. You hated when I cried. But I can't help it.
I feel so helpless. So alone. Kim came in and saw me
tried to comfort me, but it was the hopless comforting the
hopeless. She said you wouldn't want me to cry. But she knew
how I loved you and how you were and always will be embedded
within me......

Love Forever 'n a Day.....
~Kamela :)

Monday, July 7, 2008

inspiration from the blogfather

ive been avoiding you, and this whole being dead thing, and dealing - or rather, living in state of denial so strong, so consuming - that i just rather pretend it didnt really happen to get through it all, if that makes sense... im pretending that you are mad at me. that you refuse to take my phone calls or answer my emails, and that i would just wait out this wave the way i waited out all the others. meanwhile, ive been working two jobs, seven days a week, 12 hour days, so that i would fall into this coma to get me through the night. but still, 3am. same old shit.

then i read this, which made me feel guilty for ignoring you.

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Friday, July 4, 2008

postsecret

Thursday, July 3, 2008

the no-replacements.

the secrets are piling up.
i feel like im going to explode.
seriously.

five minutes ago:

i'm a bitter betty, i told daniel.
what are you bitter about, NOW? he said, sarcastically.

see. see! this is exactly what im talking about!

oh fuck.
here we go.

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Handbag

Ok, I’m sitting down the other night thinking about you

I’m looking at door where all the handbags are hanging

And there I realized a lot of them were from you

It’s amazing how you paid so much attention to others passions

And still maintain to keep up with your passions

You gave me this Kenneth Cole Black Leather Huge Vintage bag

You loved that bag, and out of no where you say “You can have it Burger”

“Don’t lose that shit”

You gave me a Victoria Secret bag, I think you got it from Zadia, Not sure

It was so bad that Carlos would asked where you get this from, and I will say “James”

This was before Ya’ll met,

I know it his mind he was like “Well damn is everything in this damn room from James”

I’m amazed because all this time I thought you just were giving me handbags

It was more than that. You knew my love for fashion

And you knew I loved Handbags and Printed Tee-shirts

And every time you saw a cool tee or handbag You got it for me

And to be fair you gave everyone something at the same time so no one feel left out

I remember you found a little tiny purse on the street, I think a little girl lost it

It was pink and white with the letter “M” on it.

You called me from outside hype “Yo son I have something fly for you “ “You gonna love this shit”

When you came by my desk it was the tiny purse, I was laughing so hard

You even left the $1 that was it in for me.

You even told me the “M” was for Manta, I was cracking up

That’s CRAZY!!!

What’s the craziest part is that you kept asking me to make Veronica a bag

But I was being lazy, and you told me as long she get it before the wedding it’s cool

Not only that you wont be able to see my first vendor show in a few weeks

THIS SUCKS….Damn!

 

You taught me a lot about friendship James. I wish I had a forgiving and loving heart like you.

 

Love Always

BFF **Manta**